Relationships vs faith is sometimes complicated.

I myself have a very stable relationship with my bf till now 7years++.
It's called faith, not a long term relationship.

Even for some ppl it's long term like for 10yrs, doesn't mean it's a faith.

Faith comes from your heart, well, it depends how strong you choose to be.
It has nothing with what you regrets or what he/she did.

A strong heart determines a vision of where you with your life partner would be in the future, your faith holds the vision as long as your heart and mind could take all of the pains and hopes for the relationship.


I always challenge my heart to the fullest with my life partner.
Cause this tell me the value of the relationship is a subject that human only feel it among each other. No other ppl can replace this feeling even you've changed another partner. or they can't be described to other ppl.

Only you and the one can feel the depth of the faith,
when you hold the vision and never let it down.


Simply, I just observed a faith happening to 2 best friends.
Simply, this is just 2 brotherly-best friend relationship, not a life partner couple.

They've same goals in career to success so they started off from one man show to a SME company. They never started intentionally together actually, one is big boss with big big and determine vision, and lion heart. The other started as a hardworking and very loyalty staff. Ups & downs, they both stay till now, even those who's closer to each of them left the company.

Well, everyone who worked with the boss and who also left the company for self-good reason knew that they were somehow being cheated into and while inside even some when they were leaving. For good in business view - financial, extra staff... Of course, everyone did learnt loads of useful lessons as this company started from scratch.

The truth is it's not as what the big boss promising - like career improvement, staff 'benefit'...

Mostly who came out felt relieved cause they felt cheated by one person who kind of promising the future, it's the matter of twist of words. Not hating the person so much but there's no chance for the ppl who left will go back to hell.

This one person is sort of a cheater, for good in business view.

Now everyone is just waiting to see when will the other brother leaving or can say, wake up from being hynotised, I recently started realising mayb not mayb ya.
Yeah, I'm one of the person got cheated, somehow, for good in business view.

He is now sort of the assistance or CEO of the cheater, Director or business partner already. They're both are so understanding each other, they discussed almost, almost everything together - of course work and .. personal life. They're this close like brothers. Even the brothers in Malaysia, very very less so close?? NVM.


Recently I've got a male cat, Meow2 picked up from street when he's in danger.
Me and Nic took care of him for almost 6 months. We knew we've no time for another pet as we've had a hyperactive dog and in time wise, i hardly squeeze in tiredly to feed and clean him and his cage sometimes. It's exhausted.

When me and Nic decided to find for a loving pet owner, Joescher, the Director would like to accept him. I tot i know him quite well, to own a pet is a challenging life.
I tot he knew this, moreover the cat will be in his office and there's another cat conquering that area. Anyway, we're so happy we found an owner.

Few days after sent the cat to the office, we received a heart-breaking and intriguing message from Joe, unexpectedly. Indirectly saying, i don't know, he can't bare the challenges of having a new cat which actuallly too afraid to adapt to a new environment, which is his office? I really can't believe how he said things like that. I totally became hate of this person. I regretted that i sent the cat into hell. Nic hated him long long time ago, when he realised I was being hypnotised.

I replied the message professionally saying I'll take back the cat. He didn't reply anything and it turned out me and Nic have to keep chasing Teh for the cat.
Teh, professionally messaged me explaining there's sure some misunderstanding and he'll solve the problem for the cat situation. I was totally numb reading his message, and i was speechless.

I passed the reply job to Nic.

Teh, is a very very trustworthy person that you can never find in other company i guess. Once he promised you a thing, no matter it's a big or a small one, he'll sure fulfill it. No matter what. I knew him since I worked with him before.
So i'm speechless that indirectly he's covering his business mate. I salute him.

Almost everyone is quite hating Joe, while Teh is helping him more and more everyday!

I finally understand this is a very strong faith as they both have got the same goals and they aimed to making it happen together, so no wonder Teh still stick to his promise for this long. Because he promised to his best friend to stay and make them happen, i guess. No matter what, he's making them happen with the guy. The faith that holds the vision so so so strong. I don't know if he know what ppl think about them, but i guess one day he'll realise.


Someone once said, there must be some luring benefits that Teh got hypnotised to stick with that guy for this long. I don't think so. Teh, is a smart and intelligent guy. Even he's being hypnotised but not materially. There's some believe in him, he could make it.

Just that mayb he didn't realise that if he keeps covering for that person, he's actually in a way, making that person bad. i don't know how the future will be for them. But I hope and believe that one day, there'll be a wake up call and they can make things better. Just for Teh's sake. and Cindy's happiness.

The situation is complicated, but strongly the faith is this simple.

May God or Buddha, bless all of us with faith.^^